Tremeu Perdeu
3 min readFeb 25, 2021

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4 tips from a dedicated husband to win back his wifeMarriage is not a great achievement that is made in dating, it is made of several conquests day after day. It is necessary to win back the beloved several times with affection, attention and sincere love.
For one reason or another it may be that the wife has lost the desire and attraction she previously had for her husband, there are several reasons that can lead to this, among these we can highlight the loss of confidence, lack of attention, lack of time together or it may be that due to the daily routine the relationship has cooled down. In any case, both the husband and the wife have a responsibility to keep the relationship alive. If it is the case that the woman has lost affection for her husband, let us look at some things that can be done to win back the woman.

First point: if you are going to win back a woman, you have won her before, then you already know how to do it. It may be that over time you stayed in your comfort zone and forgot, but a feat that has already been accomplished once can be done again, so remember the time when you were dating, remember the man who you were, what you did and how you acted and become that man again. Go back to doing the things your wife admired. She will see that even as the years go by, there is still that man inside you who made you fall in love and made you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
1. Ask for forgiveness
If you have done something wrong and because of that she is upset with you and has lost the desire to remain married because of your mistake, repent and ask for forgiveness, but that repentance must be permanent. To assess whether you are really sorry, check if you have gone through the following steps:

1 Acknowledge the error. There is no way to change your attitude if you do not recognize that you are wrong, think about your actions and reflect on the consequences they have had.

2 Feel regret. When we recognize that we have done something wrong, we feel bad about it; if you are sad don't be discouraged, you are on the right path.
3 To confess. If she still doesn't know about her mistakes or all of them, it's time to tell her; it may be painful for her to know the truth, but it will be necessary.

4 Abandon the error. The greatest proof of regret is abandonment; if you are really sorry, you will change your attitude, you will not make the same mistake again. After that ask for forgiveness, be sincere and have a real intention to change.

2. Wait patiently
There is no way to force a reconquest, so give her time to absorb this new attitude of yours and also to let her see that your intentions are sincere, especially if she is resentful of something you have done. Only time will show its change. Make her notice your change but don't force her to accept it immediately.

3. Be attractive
Worry about the clothes you wear, always have clean and well-ironed clothes, but don't require her to wash and iron your clothes, do it yourself. Use the perfume she likes and shave frequently. Much of the achievement is in physical attraction. If the famous belly is already a permanent friend do not be regretting, get up and go exercise, even if you do not lose the belly, the act of exercising will increase your self-esteem and make you be more confident.

4. Be alone
It is very important for the couple's relationship that even after the wedding they continue to date, that they keep going out and have fun. So take the time to spend alone, be romantic by inviting her to some beautiful and cozy place. You can also prepare a surprise by having dinner at home by candlelight. If you have children, send them to your grandparents' house, an uncle or someone you trust, but it is important that they are alone and without distractions.

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